Have you encountered Negatives in your life? in your place of work? In your failures? In your Success? in your everyday undertakings? It is inevitable! Negatives are but normal part of a human being's existence. That's the reason why we have positive and negative ions... even the tiniest part of our bodies need it -- for equilibrium, homeostasis, balance and harmony.
They say: 'There's always two sides of a coin", "there's Yin and Yang", there's "north and south pole."
But whenever the negative takes majority control over you, there is imbalance and often comes illness, doubts, fear and failure. in this blog i've got 2 options for you on how to deal with them...
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First...
Do you still remember the good old days of pictures?
Before a beautiful picture is developed, it needs to become a film negative first. Developer will then fix, wash and develop the film negative to become a replicate of your captured moment.
In our lives today, we experience and feel negativity [we can't avoid it], times when it feels like you want to quit what you are doing. You wanna quit your job, your business, you wanna go far... away from the people around you.
When you go through this point, remember the good old days and say "Something Beautiful is going to be Developed."
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Second...
May mga kakilala ka ba na nagdi-discourage sa’yo sa business mo?
Yung mga taong negative, pinakitaan mo ng magandang opportunity pero hindi sang-ayon at kontra pa sayo?
Yung mga nagsasabi na HINDI maganda yang idea na yan o
kaya naman nagsasabi sayo na hindi mo kaya yan!
Ang tawag sa mga taong ‘to ay mga “Dream Stealers”.
Ako ang tawag ko sa kanila ay EPAL. =)
Napaka daming Dream Stealers sa paligid natin.
Sila yung mga tao na kahit hindi mo tinatanong ng opinyon ay may opinyon padin. (EPAL talaga)
Ang badtrip pa, minsan yung mga opinyon nila ay palaging negative at madalas nakaka apekto sa belief mo sa sarili mo.
Malalaman mong dream stealer ang isang tao kapag ganito yung mga sasabihin nila sa’yo…
Ang mga Dream Stealers ay pwedeng maging kapamilya o kakilala natin…
Kamag-anak, kaibigan, karelasyon, co-workers, etc.
Meroong dalawang tipo ng dream stealers. (Hanep di ba?)
1) The Unintentional Dream Stealer:
Eto yung mga tao na nagdi-discourage at nagbibigay ng negative opinions sa mga taong malapit sa kanila pero hindi sila aware na nakaka-discourage na pala sila ng kapwa nila.
Yung mga sinasabi nila, hindi nila alam na negative pala ang mga yun.
Wala silang intention na masama at hindi nila sinasadya na makapag discourage ng tao.
Ang madalas na dahilan kung bakit sila NEGATIVE ay dahil concern lang sila sa’yo.
Yung isang tipo naman ay tinatawag na…
2) The Intentional Dream StealerEto yung mga tunay na epal!
Malaki ang problema ng mga taong ‘to.
Sila yung mga tipo ng tao na lahat ay gagawin nila para lang makapang discourage ng ibang tao “intentionally”.
Ayaw nila na makita kang maging successful kaya ka nila sasabihan ng kung ano-anong negatibong bagay para lang ma-discourage ka.
Kadalasan ang pakay nila, ay makapang-discourage ng tao para di makagawa ng aksyon para ka maging successfull.
Importante na maging aware tayo kung sino ba ang mga dream stealers o epalsa buhay natin.
Kung sa tingin mo na kaya mong maging successful sa isang career or kahit saan pa man, ang pakinggan mo lang ay ang sarili mo.
Pakingan mo din yung mga taong nakarating na sa gusto mong puntahan at yung mga taong susuporta sa’yo at gusto kang tulungan.
Maniwala ka na kaya mong maabot lahat ng pangarap mo.
Maniwala ka na kaya mong makuha ang lahat ng gustuhin mo dahil ikaw ay may infinite potentials.
Lahat tayo ay may mga Dream Stealers sa buhay natin.
Once na maging aware ka na kung sino-sino sila, pwede mong ma-block yung mga negative opinions na binibigay nila.
How do you block the negative opinions of dream stealers?
Simple lang. Balewalain mo sila at wag mo silang pakingan!
Live an Abundant Life,
Have a Great Day!
PS - Pag may super negative talaga at naninira pa,
… ang tawag dun ay TAE (Taong Ayaw sa mga Entrepreneurs)
Anong gagawin mo pag may kakilala kang ganito?
Ano bang ginagawa pag may tae sa kalsada?
Eh ‘di iwasan.
-----Either of the 2 options i gave you will be very helpful and beneficial for you... so every time there's NEGATIVE things, circumstance, people around you -- just 1. IGNORE THEM and 2. remember the good old days and say "Something Beautiful is going to be developed."
Always remember that it is completely natural to have these in our lives but it's up to us how we deal with it. Let us not forget our infinite potential.
What better way to remind ourselves of this but to go back in our childhood days -- and discover how we were infinite way back then. This video will help you remember;
I hope i have imparted something worthy and valuable for you to ponder on. Let me know your thoughts by commenting below... Thanks! 'til my next blog post.
Your Friend to True Freedom and Prosperity,
Doc ROMS
P.S.
If you've decided to do the 2 options I've offered for you in this blog post, and pursue on finding the beautiful things that can be developed from ignoring the negativity in your surroundings then you are "in" for something wonderful, then just click this while saying: "Something Beautiful is going to be Developed."
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